I'm not trying to encourage women to be gold diggers
nor write broke guys off as useless.
This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both
sides and found that a broke guy who is in relationship
is not being true to himself.
To be honest, most of what we have heard about
relationship are unfounded. Nobody will love you for
who you are when you don't have shi shi. That's just
Even the independent ladies who don’t want your
money will want someone who’s settled in their life. For
them, finding a partner is about finding someone who
fits into their lifestyle and plans for the future. That
includes things that cost money.
Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget
dating for now.
1. You are not ready for it.
You may want it but honestly you don't need it. You
need to be thinking of a master plan. You need to re-
prioritize your life and get busy with something.
Anybody who is having some major financial struggles
needs to be focused on getting that together, not
dating. get your act together THEN date.
2. You Ego Will Be Bruised Money does matter in our
society, way too much. A person's ability to eat and
look good and get medicine in time of need and take
care of your woman are the things that makes one a
man. Think about it, she called you on phone and asked
for money and you gave her the same answer. "I no
get". Then you found out much later that she somehow
got the money. You ask and was told that she got it
from another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of
her admirers that you are aware of.
3. It Is A Distraction A broke guy needs all the time in
the world alone to sort out things and having a woman
who will add some few loads to his already bent
shoulder will do him no good. Don't tell me he needs a
woman's support because a good female friend
supports one more than his girlfriend. You don't need
that extra load.
4. You Will Be Cheated On You read me right. Girls
have the habit of getting bored of things quickly, this is
due to who they are, which is coupled with the
pressures of society. Society always wants them to get
the newest and latest thing, so one day she will get tired
of hoping and waiting and accept that guy who has
been disturbing her. She may not tell you about it
because she wouldn't want to hurt you so you end up
being cheated on.
5. You Will Be FriendsZoned She likes you but cannot
continue to date you because you cannot take care of
her needs. So she would friendzone you in other not to
lose you completely. At least there is something you are
good at and she will keep your friendship because of
that. Women are smart walahi
6. She Won't Feel Loved Since traditionally men are
the ones that pay for dates, it is impossible then to
prove your love when there is no shi shi. How can you
surprise her? How can you take her out on a date or
buy her gifts? How can you say you love her when she
cannot rely on you when she is broke?
7. You Will Be Dumped Not because she doesn't love
you but because You are not the right material for a
woman who has marriage and raising a family in her
agenda. You may be lucky to get someone who will
stand by you but a goal without a deadline is just a
dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give
up. Your Bottom will be dumped. Sorry
I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter
who or what they are but money is very important in
every relationship so I think a man that cannot afford to
date needs to wait