How to Train Your Eyes to Make Strong Eye contact and Appear Confident. (Picture)
What I'm about to say is crazy; some of you will NEVER believe it.
When I was learning how to keep an eye contact for long, I embarked on a crazy training called the "Triangular Gaze".
surfed the net for hours looking for the top 5 most beautiful Africans,
Asians, Americans, Europeans and Australian. I looked for a picture
where their eyes were looking straight into the camera like the picture
1. Stage One
Get a picture of a girl/boy
you'd be terrified to approach on a normal day. A picture you think is
too sexy and hot while looking straight at the camera.
Imagine there's an inverted triangle on her face; from her sexy lips to her wide opened right eye, to her wide opened left eye, then back to her lips. With this image in your head, you'll have a triangle on her face.
When facing the picture/girl, pick only one eye; the eye on your right hand side, which is her left eye. Act as if nothing else exist of her face but the selected eye.
Everyone has an iris, a retina and all that. Look at that particular eye for 5-10 minutes without blinking.
on her pupil. The pupil is a tiny black dot at the center of her eyes —
it gets bigger during arousal or aggression/fear. In your head, have
this mindset of 'who the fúck do you think you are?' And a little naughty 'smile'
on your face while looking at the eye. Don't break your gaze despite
the distractions or lust. It'll get to a point tears will start dropping
from your eyes, but keep pushing till you reach your mark.
started, my first attempt was 45 minutes, and luckily, I made it an
hour without blinking (this is exactly what I said most of y'all won't
believe, but don't worry, it's the truth). I did mine with a system and
the brightness was at its maximum. I shed tears like rain, but it was
worth it. Now, the only person I break an eye contact with is an angry
soldier. Everyone bows before me in eye contact contest. To me, it's
like a competition of who's gonna look away first, and it must be you,
cuz I'm already trained for it.
When you're done with the eye,
you take a break and wipe your tears (by then, your eyes would be all
red). Now, it's time to do the same with her lips. When you're done, you
do the same with the other eye.
(While confidently looking at her lips, you should say in your mind "you think your lips are sexy huh? No they ain't",
even when you know they are, but while disagreeing with her in your
head, slowly bring in a naughty smile). These disagreements in your head
is a technique to avoid been too lust in the moment!
Note: to do this exercise better, use your phone with an earpiece and play some songs you love and you'll see how time will fly.
Women can also do this exercise with an extremely handsome man like... You name it.
If you do this exercise for a week or two your confidence will
increase. And when you make eye contact, with people who look less
attractive than those you've practiced with it'll make you care less on
the outcome. When you make that eye contact the other person will be the
first to look away, cuz yours will be fierce, and it'll exude
confidence. Don't you ever look aways first, except the person is an
army man (u no wan wahala nah).
If the person looks away before
you, and you're sure you've made a strong eye contact, don't look her
way again, but use your peripheral vision to monitor her, because she'll
definitely try to look back. In her head, she'll be wondering what kind
of a guy is this, and she'd want to know you. It's psychological. It's
irresistible. Women can't explain it and they can't control it.
This skill has been part of me since 2010.
was at the bank yesterday and sighted a cute girl. I was unkept, but
swagaliciously dressed. I looked like a rugged guy. I saw her and acted
as if I didn't notice her, but I was using my peripheral vision to
monitor her when she'll look my way, cuz I was the only young guy on the
queue filled with old pensioners. My cap is really an attention
grabber, so she tried to steal a glance, but I caught her and clued my
eyes with hers. She wanted to act tough and keep the eye contact till I
look away, but to no avail, she bowed and focused her attention
I also focused mine somewhere else, but was
using my peripheral vision to monitor her. Mehn! This girl was always
staring, thinking I didn't see her. When she was done, she disappeared
from her queue and reappeared on my right hand. I turned and saw a very
big yàsh and brèast standing beside me doing nothing and looking all
nervous. I was shocked. I ignored her. After 20 seconds, she went
upstairs and immediately came down, then exited the bank.
waiting on the queue for my turn, she came back and headed upstairs
again. Her ass and her boóbs were too big for her age. Then, I said
enough is enough and deed the needful. She was nervous, but happy at the
same time. I looked so rough and dangerous. So, I understand her
nervousness. Some women love dangers. She looks like a silver digger to
me, but I know how to handle that ass first.
Some people are
natural eye contact makers and keepers. If you're one of those, please
disregard this post, but if you aren't, please spare some time from your
busy schedule and learn a new skill; you'll never regret it. I promise.